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Old Dec 17, 2009, 07:22 PM   #61
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Looking forward to "Sherlock Holmes"!
Oh yes indeed. My mom and I are planning on seeing it on Christmas. I can't wait.
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Ok. I need some advice.
There's a guy from my swing dance club who's interested in me. He wants to get to know me better. We met up a couple of days ago and talked for a little bit. He texts me every once in a while. He told me why he was interested: "You're intelligent. You are laid back, funny, your eyes pull people in, and you are beautiful. You deserve all I said and more." No guy has EVER called me beautiful. That really sets them apart in my eyes...
Thing is, he and his fiancee broke up a little over a month ago, I believe (she's an officer in our swing club). He's 20 -- 21 in 2 weeks. I don't know if it's too soon for him to do anything.
But, I'm not sure if I have feelings like he has for me yet. I'm soo confused, and I'm trying to sort out my thoughts. It's so hard to do. I know getting to know the person helps with that, but how do I know if I should pursue anything further? I've never had this kind of thing happen before, and I'm really inexperienced at relationships.
Reply here, PM me, anything. I'd just like some thoughts on this.
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"You're intelligent. You are laid back, funny, your eyes pull people in, and you are beautiful. You deserve all I said and more."
He sounds wise to me!! :)
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Sounds like a nice guy, Jaye, but if he's fairly recently gotten out of a relationship, you might want to take your time. Hang out with him and get to know him better. See what happens. Good luck!
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Don't stress over it, Jaye, hang out with him, get to know him and see if you're interested in him the same way or not. Take it slow since he's only recently single, you don't want to be Rebound Girl.
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Don't stress over it, Jaye, hang out with him, get to know him and see if you're interested in him the same way or not. Take it slow since he's only recently single, you don't want to be Rebound Girl.
Rellevart's advice is as good as you can get. My 2 cents: It's flattering to have someone like you and compliment you and it makes your heart skip a beat or 10. Also, you are getting to the 'impatient years' and probably would like to find a meaningful relationship, and it is easier for the heart to be in control instead of the head. Take it slow. The one "Red Flag" I can see from your post is that his ex fiancee is also a part of your swing dance group which I can only imagine would make things pretty uncomfortable. Make certain that he's not trying to make his ex jealous as well. I'm being way presumptuous here-giving any kind of advice to someone I don't know so take it for what it's worth. It will all work out little willow.
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This is funny. The other day I pondered why Ziggy goes pantsless and this comic popped up.

http://stephanpastis.wordpress.com/2...s-well-almost/
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I've come to the conclusion that I never want children.
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Oooh, good point.
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I'm not sure about this, but since we're on Christmas break, I'll have to talk to him when I get back to school. They're both teachers in the club, and I think they might be on good terms, but I'm not sure.
Yeah, I'll check on that.
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Hey! Wait a minute M!! You're so cool and artsy and Beatley--it would be a shame. Think how awesome your little luquettes would/will be!
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All good advice to Jaye, I say take it slow Jaye, sounds like your not sure you like the guy in a relationship way, don't be swept off your feet by a line either! In general people have many layers to them...
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All good advice to Jaye, I say take it slow Jaye, sounds like your not sure you like the guy in a relationship way, don't be swept off your feet by a line either! In general people have many layers to them...
Especially us rotten men. There should be a "horrible pick-up line" thread.
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All good advice to Jaye, I say take it slow Jaye, sounds like your not sure you like the guy in a relationship way, don't be swept off your feet by a line either! In general people have many layers to them...
I'm taking it slow and getting to know him better. He's a nice guy, and he'd been an acquaintance beforehand, so yeah.
Something is nudging me to keep talking to him...so yeah.

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I feel like I'm probably overstepping here, but I would probably be remiss if I didn't add that this guy made a promise to marry that chick and they've only been broken up for one month. Step lightly my friend. One day at a time (and all those other cliches you hear all the time).
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heh. and i've come to the conclusion that i never want to come to a conclusion.
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this guy made a promise to marry that chick and they've only been broken up for one month. Step lightly my friend. One day at a time (and all those other cliches you hear all the time).
And that's why I'm takin' it slow...

PS. And not all guys are rotten. Just the majority.
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