Kim, none of us were trying to make you feel bad, honestly. I hope you understand that this has been a quite civil, quite interesting discussion!
It's just that while you were gone today, a lot of points came up that offered food for thought and we discussed them!
Please don't feel you should not have posted your link -- NO ONE is saying that at all, and there are probably some people here who would like to read your stories!
I hope you will stick around and join in other discussions!